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| Introduction: One Bar Mitzvah, Hold the Camels |
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Why Is This Party Duller Than All Others? |
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1 | (6) |
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2 | (1) |
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The Hazards of Being Yourself |
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Being Judged on Your ``Bar Mitzvability'' |
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3 | (1) |
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Why So Many Events Feel Generic |
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4 | (3) |
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Where Party Excitement Comes From |
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7 | (4) |
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8 | (1) |
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9 | (2) |
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Ordinary vs. MitzvahChic: Which One Is for You? |
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11 | (8) |
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11 | (1) |
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Make Guests Feel Treasured |
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12 | (2) |
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Keep the Focus on Your Child and the Message of Mitzvah |
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14 | (2) |
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Avoid the Ordinary---Use Only Fabulous Solutions |
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16 | (3) |
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The Major Party Decisions You Have to Make First |
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What Time of Day and Year Will You Have It? |
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20 | (2) |
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One Family's Answer to the Day vs. Night Dilemma: Both! |
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22 | (2) |
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24 | (5) |
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29 | (3) |
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Should There Be Special Entertainment? |
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32 | (3) |
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The Little Party Details That Really Matter |
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35 | (10) |
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35 | (1) |
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36 | (3) |
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39 | (2) |
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41 | (1) |
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41 | (1) |
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Icebreaking for Strangers |
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42 | (3) |
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The Torah for the Farchadat (Confused) |
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45 | (34) |
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Using the Torah Summary to Choose a Date |
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46 | (1) |
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Books and Videos That Bring the Torah to Life |
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47 | (1) |
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48 | (1) |
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How the Torah Is Made and Organized |
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49 | (2) |
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51 | (28) |
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What Is a Bar or Bat Mitzvah? |
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79 | (2) |
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81 | (1) |
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Personalizing the Service |
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82 | (3) |
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What to Tell Your Friends About the Service |
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85 | (1) |
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The Top Ten Things Non-Jews Want to Know About the Bar or Bat Mitzvah |
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86 | (5) |
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For the Non-Jewish Parent |
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91 | (8) |
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Why Intermarriage Upsets People |
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92 | (1) |
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Feeling Accepted by Your Jewish Family |
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93 | (2) |
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Feeling Accepted by the Jewish Community |
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95 | (2) |
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Resources for Intermarried Families |
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97 | (2) |
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Writing a Great Speech and Finding the Courage to Give It |
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99 | (16) |
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Helping Your Child with the Dvar Torah |
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99 | (1) |
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Your Speech to Your Child |
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100 | (3) |
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103 | (9) |
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Overcoming Your Nervousness |
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112 | (3) |
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Making the Event More of a Mitzvah |
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115 | (10) |
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115 | (1) |
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116 | (1) |
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Finding a Mitzvah Project |
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116 | (2) |
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118 | (3) |
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Buying Products with a Conscience |
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121 | (1) |
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Other Great Charitable Ideas to Use at Your Event |
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122 | (1) |
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Donating Money to Charities |
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123 | (1) |
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Do-It-Yourself Opportunities |
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123 | (2) |
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Party Ideas for Each Torah Portion |
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125 | (32) |
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Using Torah and Holiday Themes at the Party |
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125 | (2) |
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Finding the Products and Charities Listed Here |
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127 | (1) |
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Hunting Online by Yourself |
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127 | (3) |
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Party Ideas for Each Portion |
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130 | (23) |
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Jewish Holiday Summaries and Symbols |
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153 | (4) |
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Eight Complete Parties That Will Leave You FARKLEMPT! |
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157 | (24) |
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159 | (2) |
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161 | (4) |
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165 | (2) |
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167 | (4) |
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171 | (2) |
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173 | (2) |
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175 | (3) |
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178 | (3) |
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Crafts for Style and Therapy |
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181 | (24) |
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183 | (4) |
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Crafts from ``Eight Complete Parties That Will Leave You FARKLEMPT!'' |
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187 | (11) |
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Crafts from ``Party Ideas for Each Torah Portion'' |
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198 | (7) |
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205 | (8) |
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205 | (1) |
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206 | (1) |
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206 | (2) |
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208 | (1) |
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209 | (1) |
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210 | (3) |
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The Kids Have the Last Word |
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213 | (8) |
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221 | (42) |
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221 | (5) |
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226 | (1) |
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Questions to Ask the Rabbi/Cantor |
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227 | (1) |
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Insider Tips on Hiring Great Vendors |
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228 | (15) |
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Questions to Ask About a Venue |
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229 | (2) |
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Questions to Ask a Caterer |
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231 | (1) |
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Questions to Ask a Party Planner |
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232 | (2) |
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Questions to Ask a Photographer |
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234 | (2) |
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Questions to Ask a DJ/Band |
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236 | (2) |
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Questions to Ask a Tent Rental Company |
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238 | (5) |
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243 | (4) |
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A wacky, eclectic grab bag of information you'll need to create some of the projects or moments in this book. Includes prayers, a recipe for manna, and a suggested playlist for a CD of freedom songs |
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247 | (8) |
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255 | (8) |
| Index |
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